Support during change, uncertainty, and becoming.
Do you have a difficult time adapting to change? Does making life decisions cause you to constantly procrastinate, distract yourself, or feel frozen? Do you sometimes feel rushed to make a decision? Do you need to plan out every part of your day and even your life? Are you scared of making the wrong decisions? Do you fear the unpredictable or the unknown?
Have you recently decided to change careers, end a relationship in your life, commit to a major life milestone, or move to new city or country? You are experiencing a big life transition.
Common major life transitions and changes include:
Career changes or burnout
Relationship beginnings or endings
Moving, immigration, or relocation
Identity shifts
Becoming a caregiver or parent
Entering a new life stage
Grief and Loss
As humans, change in life is inevitable, however that does not make adjusting and adapting to change easy. Especially where the unknown can be unpredictable and our minds are biologically wired to look out for risk. It can make decision making in life truly difficult leading to increased anxiety, decision paralysis, fatigue, and even a state of numbness.
“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”
-Viktor Frankl
Growth doesn’t have to be rushed to be real.
Therapy can help you:
Learn to explore, process, and make meaning of your current transition
Understand and Identify the barriers that impede adaptability and flexibility
Clarify present values and needs for future direction
Process mixed emotions and learn emotion regulation
Build confidence during times of uncertainty and unpredictability
Move forward with intention rather than rigidity and speed.
Acknowledge the here-and-now without focus on the past mistakes or future risks
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Akin Approaches to Approaching Life Transitions
Change can ask us to let go of what was, make space for what is , and gently discover what comes next while staying connected to yourself.
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ACT helps us explore and process what matters to you according to your values while creating greater psychological flexibility to change will make uncertainty less daunting and more tolerable.
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Strength-based therapy provides us keep an open-mind to new experiences by highlighting and validating past experiences where resilience and ways of coping were used and continued to be carried with you making challenging life experiences more approachable.
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Experiencing a life transition often feels like the road ahead is too daunting to walk. Solution-focused therapy makes steps feel less steep by asking “what do you want life to look like?, “ "what is currently working for you?, “ and “what is one step that might move you in the direction you’d like? “.
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Transitions and life challenges are deeply personal, but are also universal experiences. By acknowledging this human experience, you will be provided genuine, empathetic, and non-judgmental support and the space to explore and process without an “expert" telling you how to think, feel, and act.
Let’s Work Together
If you are currently or will be embarking on a transition in the near-future, you do not have to figure it out alone.
